We have 17 ways to help your child have a better day at school. Is your child having challenges at school that is preventing them from wanting to go? Perhaps you want to make going back to school extra fun? We are here to help!
17 Ways To Help Your Child Have A Better Day At School
It’s the simplest things that can make your child’s day THAT much cooler and brighter!
A note of encouragement and positivity can turn a frown upside down. Make your child smile at school with these 17 helpful ways to help your child have a better day at school.
Every time I write a cute little note on a banana my kids love it! Often times for my youngest daughter I draw pictures or learning words to help encourage her to read. Little notes of encouragement written on a banana peel with a permanent marker have made my children smile every time. Little notes such as…
• You are a Rock Star!
• Have a beautiful day!
• You are my sunshine!
• Good Luck Today!
• You make me smile. 🙂
There are lots of little things you can say and when your child opens their lunch at school. It will be a huge surprise!
If you’re in need of more ideas on what to write check out this post here on alternative ways to say “Good Job!”
I knew my daughter was a little nervous about taking her social studies test. We studied and practiced but I knew if I added in a little extra pick me up on the day of her test it would make her feel better.
Sure enough, it did just the trick! When she opened her snack at school. I had written “Good Luck on your test!” Love, Mom on her snack bag.
It made her smile and she felt that sense of encouragement. FYI she aced the test! 😀
Back to School Mom Hacks
- Take the time to stand outside with them while they wait for the bus.
- Take the time to read them books about school. How other kids have made it through the hard days.
- Buy them a new outfit that they feel confident in.
- Remember to keep in mind one of the biggest things kids will get compliments on all year long is their book bag. This is something that you will want to make sure that they feel confident about and is a book bag that they’ll feel comfortable using. For example, a 7th grader probably won’t want to show up to school with a ninja turtle backpack. 😉
- Encourage them to break out of their shell and meet new friends.
- See if taking the bus is something that will be better for them to meet new people or if they’re having a hard time on the bus see if there is another alternative.
I used this hack all year-long last year! My son absolutely LOVES when I draw on the outside of his lunch bag. He literally will throw out all the trash and keep the bag, then I will find them stuffed inside his book bag just because I drew on them. How sweet is that?! I tell him, “Buddy, it’s okay you don’t have to keep your lunch bag.” He says, “I know, but I want to.” It really melts my heart.
Remember, the smallest gestures can mean a million dollars to your child.
- Give your child something that they can hold in their pocket, locker, desk, or bookbag. If they get scared or worried they’ll know you’re not too far.
- Make sure you’re a few minutes early to pick up your child.
- If your child gets sad before school, reassure her that you’ll be right there when she gets out. If you walk to the door to pick up your child try to stand in the same spot so she’ll know right where to look when she walks out of the school.
- Use cookie cutters to create fun and enjoyable sandwiches for lunch.
- Put a surprise picture, sticker, or character print out in your child’s lunch box. They’ll get a kick out of it!
Increase Positive Encouragement
17 Ways To Help Your Child Have A Better Day At School increasing positive encouragement is a fantastic way to do this.
One thing that I have found with my kids is when I give them rewards to get an A on a test, make their bed without me asking, read a new book, or break out of their shell and make a new friend at school. All of this creates positive encouragement and they want to continue to do those things.
That is when I came up with the ticket system. At the end of the month, they can cash their tickets in for prizes. Prizes where they have an ice cream date with mom, an hour up late after bed, or other things like an extra hour of video games.
After school is typically when I give out the tickets but sometimes I will add them to their lunch box for an extra fun surprise. 🙂
Lastly, I love throwing a surprise after school party! Whether it’s the first day of school or a back to school celebration. Adding in a water balloon fight, a picnic, and more brightens any students day.
A simple note from mom can do just the trick to cure school blues. I know when my mom would write us little notes growing up it would mean a million dollars to us. I cherish those moments.♥ I hope this helpful mom hacks will help make your child’s day brighter. Hugs mama! 🙂
If you’re looking for Birthday Traditions for your Kids be sure to check out this post here! Cool Ideas!!! 🙂
Brittany N says
Oh the writing on the banana peel is so cute and something I never would have thought of! Thanks for sharing!
Cas says
You’re very welcome! Thanks for stopping by! 🙂
Nicole Banuelos says
These are such great ideas! I can’t wait to do this for my kids!
Cas says
Thanks Nicole! 🙂
Sarah Camille says
These are such great ideas for parents! I think the banana one might be my favorite. 🙂
Cheers, Sarah Camille // SCsScoop.com
Cas says
Thanks Sarah! I’m so glad you enjoyed the ideas. The banana idea is a hit! 🙂
Julie I Aloha Lovely says
These are such cute ideas! I think my kiddos are at the age it might embarrass them, lol.
Cas says
Thanks Julie 🙂 and LOL don’t worry I completely understand! 🙂
Claudia Blanton says
What a wonderful set of ideas! I especially loved the idea of writing little encouragements on the clear snack bags, that was awesome. I homeschool my children, so I thankfully don’t have to deal with all of the anxieties that come with public and private out of home schooling, but I think a lot of people can utilize those ideas. Blessings!
Cas says
Awe. Thanks Claudia! I am so glad that you enjoyed the ideas. I agree, I think a lot of people could use these ideas. Thanks for the sweet comment and blessings back! 🙂
Shell says
I homeschool my little boy so we always make lunch together but I like all these adorable ideas for mamas to use for their kids do school lunches!!
Cas says
Shell, Thank you so much!!! 🙂
Shannon | Mom Without Labels says
What a great list! You’re such a good mama. My littlest would definitely get a kick out of the bananas!
Cas says
Awe. Thanks Shannon!!!! 🙂
Marlynn | UrbanBlissLife says
I have never thought of writing notes on bananas before. Cute! I love things like this. It’s definitely important to let your kids know you love and think about them!
Cas says
Thank you Marlynn, I absolutely agree. It’s the littlest things that sometimes mean the most. 🙂
Terri Steffes says
I am a retired school principal and I love your ideas, especially the one with spelling words on the lunch bag. (if they don’t allow talking during lunch, though, NO. This is the kids social time. Teach them how to do it right!) I love that your student doesn’t want to throw away the bags. Maybe you could take photos of them for him? Make a collage?
Cas says
Thank you so much Terri, that is a great idea to create a photo collage out of the bags. I think my son would absolutely love this idea. 🙂
Hannah Rooks says
These are SO sweet! I don’t have any kids yet, but I think some of these would be fun to do for my husband.
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Cas says
Thanks Hannah! 🙂
Erica D Ardali says
Your kids will remember this kind of stuff forever. It’s so cool that you’re helping moms make memories.
Cas says
Awe. That was very sweet. Thanks Erica!
Amanda Rosson says
Oh these ideas are so cute!! I especially love the writing notes on a banana! I’m definitely going to do that when I have kids one day!
Cas says
Thanks Amanda! 🙂 I’m sure they’ll love it!
tasha says
Oh wow! These are some really great ideas! I would have never thought of writing a note on a banana. My youngest would really appreciate this.
Cas says
Yay! I’m so glad it is a new and fresh idea for you and something you can enjoy with your son. 🙂 Thanks for the sweet comment. 🙂